Saturday, June 22, 2013

Reflection Essay




Reflection Time
                My observations from my writing journals and my blog posts showed that I had two different ideas of writing. My writing journals show that I took time to ponder and think about what I wanted to say and how effectual my feelings were when put into words. I feel that when I wrote about each journal prompt topic I was able to find something personal and heartfelt to write about. When it came to my blog posts, however, the writing was less than stellar when it came to my chosen topic of child abuse. When I came across items that had to do with child abuse that I thought were interesting or effective in reaching my audience, I didn’t really take the time to search out my deeper feelings on the topic, leaving my audience with a more superficial reading for each post. I guess I felt like the heart of the each post was more about the picture, video or article then about what I had to say about it. I know now that I could have done better, and taken the time to explore my feelings on a deeper level. Things are always more clear in hindsight.
                The experience of revising and work-shopping my papers were sometimes difficult to do, due to the fact that it requires accepting criticism with the way that I write. I know that it’s supposed to be productive, but at times, especially when words you want to express don’t flow in an adequate manner onto paper, it’s hard to stomach the critique. You’ve put all you have into it and you felt like it resonates and has feeling, then someone reads it and tells you it’s boring. Ouch! It definitely stings and I find that I am frustrated, like all of my time putting together a paper was wasted. I might as well have written nothing for all the good it did me. But then I realize I just need to understand that the workshops and revising are there to help me learn a better way of writing. That the criticism is not meant to tear me down, it has nothing to do with me personally. The criticism is there so show me how I can improve, do better, and show that I can write well thought out papers.
                Who am I? I think this is something everyone struggles to understand about themselves. How in the world could you put it into words a description of yourself? I could tell you a whole slew of things about me: that I love to sing; I don’t have a favorite color though I love rainbows; I’m impetuous yet compassionate; I love to star watch; I believe there aren’t enough years in my life to do all of the things I want to see and experience; and that I believe you can live a thousand lifetimes inside of a book. All of these things, and million more details make up me. It’s a good starting place, but I don’t think I can ever tell anyone who I really am. Cause I don’t really know. Every moment I am changing. I think this goes for all of people; We are beings who are in a constant state of change, being reborn though life experiences and ideas. We are like the mythical Phoenix, born and reborn for the ashes of ourselves. That is who I am. 



Monday, June 17, 2013

Judge Judy

I watched this thought it was excellent case of what a parent should do when child abuse is witnessed.

For some reason I could not get this video to load to this post. I tried to embed it as well, still wouldn't work. Saving the video to my computer and then uploading it to this specific post was the only way to make it easier for my fellow blog surfers.

I decided to not upload cause bloggers video quality isn't the best so I will just include the link. Go check it out. It's a great case.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNXouhqlkic


Monday, June 10, 2013

Video: Child Abuse Ad from Spain

I saw this on Wimp.com and had to have it on here as part of my blog. I am just wowed, literally wowed, by the amount of thought that went into this campaign! I don't have cable so I have no clue the kinds of ads that might appear on TV here in the US. I must give a shout out to Spain for putting this wonderful campaign together!


I loved the last 12 seconds of the video. The two statements, one geared to the child, and the other geared to the parent. I thought they were both very powerful!

The website that originally posted the video can be found here (through Google translation, as it is in Spanish).

Sunday, June 9, 2013

06 09 2012 News surfing

I get up quite early most mornings, and today was nothing different. I got onto the computer and headed to my two favorite news sites.

Side-note*: I have always been really interested in the news even as a young child. Alright I'll admit I was interested in many things my peers weren't interested in. But in particular I loved watching the morning and evening news on my little 13in. black & white, bunny ear, t.v. I guess I just understood that what happens in one part of the country or world can effect everyone.

Back to my point, I was surfing through articles on Foxnews.com and came across this one by happenstance.

Here is the link to the original article posted in the LA Times.

This article produces two arguments that I would like to make, but probably won't get the time to do so in my final-school related blog/paper post. The first is that government agencies that are capable of helping all children like we, as a society, think they can. Many times children fall through the cracks whether its to to the work load of social workers or just general negligence on the follow-up.

My second point is that it seems that children are much more likely to be abused when they have a step-parent or their parent has a live-in boyfriend/girlfriend. My abuser was a step-parent. I had a friend who's step-parent was abusive. There was a very prominent case ongoing here in the Intermountain West, where I live, where the step-parent was involved in the murder of a child.That isn't to say that abuse doesn't happen with genetic parents, but to me, it seems that the prevalence of child abuse is higher with step-parents or the boy/girlfriend of the parent.



Just something I am working through in my head. :)